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Ten Ways To Become A Better Father

1. RESPECT THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN

       One of the best things a father can do for his children is to respect their mother. If you are married,
       keep your marriage strong and vital. If you’re not married, it is still important to respect the mother of
       your children. A father and mother who respect each other, and let their children know it, provide a
       secure environment for them. When children see their parents respecting each other, they are more
       likely to feel that they are also respected and accepted.

2. SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR CHILDREN

               How a father spends time tells his children what’s important to him. If you always seem too busy for
               your children, they will feel neglected no matter what you say. Treasuring children often means
               sacrificing other things, but it is essential to spend time with your children. Kids grow up so quickly.
               Missed opportunities are lost forever.

3. EARN THE RIGHT TO BE HEARD

               All too often the only time a father speaks to his children is when they have done something wrong.
               That’s why so many children cringe when their mother says, “Your father wants to talk with you.”
               Begin talking with your kids when they are very young so that difficult subjects will be easier when
               they get older. Take time and listen to their ideas and problems.

4. DISCIPLINE WITH LOVE

               All children need guidance and discipline. Remind your children of the consequences of their
             actions and provide meaningful rewards for desirable behaviors. Fathers who discipline in a calm
               and fair manner show love for their children.

5. BE A ROLE MODEL

               Fathers are role models to their kids, whether they realize it or not, a girl who spends time with a
               loving father grows up knowing she deserves to be treated with respect by boys, and what to look for
               in a husband. Fathers can teach sons what is important in life by demonstrating honesty, humility,
               and responsibility.

6.  BECOME A TEACHER

              Too many fathers think that teaching is something that others do. A father who teaches his children
              about right and wrong, and encourages them to do their best, will see his children make good
              choices. Involved fathers use everyday examples to help their children learn the basic lessons of life.

7. EAT TOGETHER AS A FAMILY

              Sharing a meal together (breakfast, lunch, or dinner) can be an important part of healthy family life.
              In addition to providing some structure in a busy day, it gives kids the chance to talk about what they
              are doing and what they want to do. It is a good time for fathers to listen and give advice. Most
              importantly, it is a time for families to be together each day.

8. READ TO YOUR CHILDREN

              In a world where television often dominates the lives of children, it is important that fathers make the
             effort to read to their children. Children learn best by doing and reading. Begin reading to your
              children when they are very young. When they are older, encourage them to read on their own.
              Instilling a love for reading in your children is one of the best ways to ensure they will have a lifetime
              of personal and career growth.

9.  SHOW AFFECTION

              Children need the security that comes from knowing they are wanted, accepted, and loved by their
              family. Parents, especially fathers, need to feel both comfortable and willing to hug their children.
              Showing affection everyday is the best way to let your children know that you love them.

10. REALIZE THAT A FATHER’S JOB IS NEVER DONE

              Even after children are grown and ready to leave home, they will still look to their fathers for wisdom
              and advice. Whether it’s continued schooling, a new job, or a wedding, fathers continue to play an
              essential part in the lives of their children as they grow and, perhaps, marry and build their own
              families.

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